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HF10
23-11-2007, 10:07 PM
Ok, so I need advice on what to do.
There is this girl that really caught my eye in one of my classes. I've known her a bit since coming to high school. At first I didn't see anything special in her, but this year, she's changed a lot, and I really like her. The only problem is that she is maybe going out with one of my friends. He isn't one of my closest friends, but still a good friend. The problem is that I don't know if they are going out. On facebook I saw pictures of my friend holding her hand, or just with his arms around her. And I see them in the halls talking every once in a while. Yet, they don't act like bf and gf. And I this has been going on since the end of last year, when I first began to think of this girl. Also on facebook, recently I saw a picture of the guy with his arms around her, but a week later, both of them said that they were single in their profiles (before, they just didn't fill that part in). I've asked this question on yahoo answers, and always people said that I should back off, and find someone else. Well I've tried doing this but its been a a few weeks, and still I just can't stop thinking about her. Shes everything i've ever wanted, shes perfect. At first she didn't talk to me at all, but now shes asked me an odd question, and said hi to me in the hall. Although it doesn't seem that she really likes me, I still can't let her go. What do I do, I can't stop thinking about her, even though I know shes probably off limits cause of my friend. I need some advice on what to do? What do you think of this situation.

Thanks,
HF10

haza.haxa
24-11-2007, 12:07 AM
I'm not exactly an expert in this area, but I would say go for it! if you're that crazy about her, then you should try talking to her. Find out what she likes and pretend you like it too. If you're still worried about your friend, try talking to him about it. Find out what really happened between them. Just remember, bros before hoes dude. Good luck!

Revenant
24-11-2007, 11:16 AM
You're 16, forget about her. Your feelings about her will almost certainly change in the not-to-distant future. And, yes, bros before hoes is a rule to live by through teenage years.

Rasalom
24-11-2007, 04:00 PM
bros before hoes is a rule to live by through teenage years.

Seconded.

If you've asked this question before & gotten the same feedback, maybe you should heed the advice instead of going every place you can think of in order to hopefully get some excuse to go after her. I know you want to & also want to justify it in your mind, but pay attention when lots of people give you the same exact advice over & over.

CrimsonInferno
28-11-2007, 12:55 AM
Even though I am not by any means a male, I understand that feeling and I agree with everyone else here: friends before girlfriends. Honestly, ask your friend and see what is up on his end. If he says that there isn't much going on and gives you a heads up... go for it! If there IS one of those stupid "Oh, we're not going out or anything...but y'know...she's pretty chill" one of those things...I say let it go and have them figure their stuff out. Those kind of situations are immature, and not worth hanging over.

haza.haxa
28-11-2007, 05:25 PM
yay! people agree with me for once. =D

Cinta April
05-01-2008, 03:07 AM
There are so many fishes? Why trouble yourself with a complicated case like this?

Rasalom
06-01-2008, 08:56 AM
There are so many fishes? Why trouble yourself with a complicated case like this?

Pssh, he has himself a special fish, a one of a kind! Lmao.

Lollipop
11-02-2008, 03:13 PM
Wonder what decision he made then...

JessicaJ10790
12-02-2008, 12:12 AM
my advice is to talk to her, ask her if she's seeing your friend. and if she's not, then ask her out. just tell her how you feel about her.

Lollipop
12-02-2008, 02:16 PM
And hope she dosen't laugh in your face.. lol *joke*