liking a guy thats offlimits

[yvern90@]

hey who ever reads this.

im a girl who sadly really likes her bestfriend who is a guy.
ive recently had alot of problems with relationships and my last relationship was 2 months ago..yet it was more of a fling that turned bad...

anyways..

i lhave recently started to fall for my best friend.We will call him A. last year we became friends and we flirted alot and we liked eachother. But at that time i was having problems with my own boyfriend who ill call B ,that i had to sort out.

so while i sorted out my problems with B at that time, A,the friend, feel in love with a girl..who is still his current girlfriend.

throught out this whole time me and A formed a close friendship.But i had minor feelings for him i kept hidden.

and now im split up from my ex B and had a minor quite terrible fling with a loser.

im noticing that im once again attracted to and im starting ot fall for A and weve become getting even more closer.
we are again flirting more serious again which sometimes is a joke.. but sometimes it does cross boundaries.

he is behaving like he did when we liked eachother last year.. Yet i know he loves his girlfriend, who just happens to be the kindest sweetest girl on this earth,but i cant help loving him as well.

im just confused with what i should do.

we always had flirted.. its just how we both are.. but yeah its getting more intense as are my feelnigs towards him.

is it wrong to even think about him? or to fantasise about him?

oh im jsut very confused!!

HELP ME!:blush::heartpump

[baird]

I always say to people:
If you've got BOY problems, just become lesbian!
Why does every single f*cking girl on the planet appear to be in love with her best friend?!
Get other friends, become lesbian, go to a f*cking monestary, whatever!
Don't tell us your problems! That's stupid! Everyone on the internet can read your problems, now!
We can't do anything to help you, our advice sucks.
I'm sorry to break it to you, but...The only one that can solve your problem is you!
I wish you the best of luck with the guy, I know how it is and I know it sucks ass, but...Love is pain, get over it or get used to it...

[haza.haxa]

He likes someone else. Forget it. IT AIN"T GONNA HAPPEN!!!

[snookid]

awww.... like what baird said ..... the only one who can solve your problem is yourself ... control over your emotions and w/e ....
and yeahh i like baird's second line .... become a lesbian

[abrocks22]

well, my advice to you is to try to control your feelings. he's taken and although you have this bond with him, try to put yourself in his gf's shoes. how would she feel about this? plus, there are a lot of guys out there that you might like. why him?

[danny]

your advice is irelivent

[dorchi sherpa]

hi i read your masage, i thing you are right, you have to make quick to make a boy friend other ways it gon be to let, so please decided quick, and let me know ok:blush:

[Lollipop]

hey who ever reads this.


is it wrong to even think about him? or to fantasise about him?

oh im jsut very confused!!

HELP ME!:blush::heartpump

It is not wrong to feel that way, but It is wrong if you act out on it when he is with somebody else.

I'm guessing you are about 18, if 1990 is your Date of birth. Forget about the guy, you are too young to be worrying about stuff like this. Life is for living, not lusting after boys.

Or you could find somebody else who is single. Then you will not be responsible for breaking a relationship up.

[jsmusicbox]

i think sometimes when our guys problems get so bad that we have to resort to our best friends esp. one that's a guy, we just need to draw a line. i mean think about your friendship if that's something you want to treasure forever. i think you need to control you feelnigs bout this guy. how would you feel if your bf cheated on you with his best friend? not a good idea. :domo:

[blackhawck101088]

let me put it this way, if you love him, dont even think about giving up! love is amazing and it should never take the back seat!!!!!!!!!!!! if hes in "love" with the other girl just turn up the fire, flirt, smile laugh, he will notice.