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Sk8erskieler10
10-02-2008, 11:52 PM
One question? WHY DOES EVERYONE GO CRAZY OVER CLOTHES AND ACCESORIES! I mean... I do it sometimes too... But don't all girls?
It's hard to be yourself when you bearly know how to act... SO WHAT DO YOU DO? *sigh*

Sadly scientists haven't come up with the answer for that yet.....


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Sk8erskieler10

snookid
11-02-2008, 10:12 AM
lol it's all influence ... trying to be better ... trying to impress someone ... tht's why ppl dress fancy .... but as i said some exceptions are always there .. ppl dress up for their own reasons ... to feel comfortable/being civil etc ... like i don't feel like wearing jeans and prefer trousers/cotton jeans/ and stuffs ... i just gave an example .. but ppl have their own reasons .... idk 'em all ... neways ... nowadays i don't have time to pick up cloths and be fancy .... other times when i go to pubs and parties ... usually cotton jeans, snickers, tshirt(gotta be loose one...idk y i prefer them) .... and i gotta admit this one i love accessories (necklace, handbands, scaffs ... blaaaah) :P <<== tht's me so basically wearing these things i feel like being myself ... but if i change the order, i feel like copying others

Rasalom
11-02-2008, 08:12 PM
One question? WHY DOES EVERYONE GO CRAZY OVER CLOTHES AND ACCESORIES! I mean... I do it sometimes too... But don't all girls?
It's hard to be yourself when you bearly know how to act... SO WHAT DO YOU DO? *sigh*

Sadly scientists haven't come up with the answer for that yet.....


Signed,
Sk8erskieler10

Uhm... Just because you see other girls with a different purse & shoes every day doesn't mean that you have to have a purse & shoes for every day of the week. That doesn't have so much to do with peer pressure as it does you being jealous of what the other girls have & wanting to have the things like that for yourself.

Sk8erskieler10
11-02-2008, 10:52 PM
Your very true... Why would I care what other people are wearing... It's all about personality... But, the main reason this is related to peer preasure is, well... All the suckish populars at the schools wear very expensive brands... And almost everyone at my school feels the need to dress like them... So if don't dress like them your pressured by everyone who does... Especially if its your best friend. I believe being your own unique self is the way to go!
AND TRUST ME... I'M TOTALLY MYSELF! :wink:

snookid
12-02-2008, 08:22 AM
ahh be yourself ... :P tht's what i can say ... how can u say "bestfren" when she/he can't accept whu u are ... btw f*** the "suckish populars" .... n yah i liked "being your own unique self is the way to go" :) thumbs up

R3sident
20-02-2008, 07:13 PM
For what kind of best friend we talk when he/she does pressure?
It seems that happens everywhere when you are a teenager. Makes you feel really pressured. And when you give up with this ... you are sad ...
The way for this is to defend your position and to be exactly yourself.